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Before opening Slack or email, set a short timer, breathe steadily, and review a small card listing what you control. Label messages by leverage, decide which can wait, and respond concisely. End by closing the apps, logging learnings, and returning attention to focused work.
Reserve ten quiet minutes before ending the day. Record wins, misses, and what was controllable. Write tomorrow’s one essential step and two nice-to-haves. Express gratitude to one person. Close loops, power down devices, and transition into rest without carrying unresolved mental residue.
Take four slow counts in, hold four, exhale four, hold four, repeating for two minutes. While breathing, recall your chosen virtues and define the smallest courageous outcome. Enter the call grounded, speak briefly, ask clarifying questions, and accept unknowns without surrendering the actions you control.
Use a brief cold shower or a face splash to signal a state change. As discomfort rises, repeat that obstacles become the way forward. Notice the urge to escape, choose presence, and re-enter the day with sharpened attention and refreshed commitment to meaningful work.
Stand up, shake arms and legs for thirty seconds, roll shoulders, and exhale longer than you inhale. Label the strongest emotion, name one controllable lever, and write the next action. Enter the next meeting neutral, neither carrying resentment nor clinging to previous momentum.